The laws regarding living expenses given to birthmothers doing an adoption vary greatly from one state to another. Some states are very generous and some states do not allow any living expenses at all. Many states put a cap on living expenses at just a few thousand dollars. Some states will allow almost any expenses incurred during an adoption to be paid; other states will only allow the most basic expenses like rent, utilities, food and medical bills. States that allow living expenses usually will pay your expenses for one to two months after the birth of your baby.
In general, you will have to go by the law of the state where you deliver your baby. There is one exception to this: In some cases, some states will allow you to go by the law of the state in which the adoptive parents reside.
The laws are complicated and sometimes do not make sense. It is important that you follow the directions of the attorney or agency handling your adoption. They will be the ones who pay your bills and give you spending money. If you find that you do not have enough money to live on during your pregnancy, or there are changes in your life that require more money, talk to your caseworker and the attorney or agency dispensing the money.
In addition, some states will allow you to be back-paid for living expenses that you incurred during your adoption. You can receive a lump sum payment at the end instead of having your bills paid month by month.
If money is a serious necessity in your adoption plan, please let us know. A Birthmother's Choice will give you all the information you need to make an informed choice and stay within the law.
